November 21, 2012

Out and about in Nanning

Dan's posting...
Glory is doing great.  She has been such a blessing to us already.  She is very active and loves to move around and loves to be held.  She smiles and laughs a lot and already seems very comfortable with both of us.

I have had the chance to take a couple of walks through the streets of Nanning while Allison and Glory take naps. The weather is in the low 80's and feels great compared to the cold weather in Beijing.  There are many street markets with many fresh fruit, vegetables, seafood, and meat.  We are off on a trip to the countryside next.
 














November 18, 2012

Beijing to Nanning

Right now Dan and i are sitting in our new hotel room at 'the Majestic' in Nanning - 'the greenest city in China' it boasts, and was gorgeous flying into. We have not had much time-or internet connection- to post the last 2 days. 

So two days ago while we were still in Beijing we left early morning for another busy day of touring. Blessed with a beautiful and crisp day of sunshine, we first followed our guide Emily and three other couples, past the first train station in Beijing, which is no longer in use, then crossed the street underground, to Tien an men Square.  We then followed the crowds of Chinese people waiting in line to go into a mausolem built in honor of Chairman Mao. 
 
We listened to Emily explain the government buildings surrounding, and then crossed the expansive square and another underground 'street' of people, into the forbidden city. Interestingly at every checkpoint or security site thus far, including the airport customs, only the Chinese people were stopped and made to get in a long line to be searched, but not any foreigners or tour groups.  Our tour guide just said 'we were special' because we were in a group..... hmmm.  As you can see, we kind of went crazy taking pictures inside the layers of the palace and forbidden city.  The photo of the relief carving is the largest carving like it from one single rock, in China. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
After our forbidden city tour we were taken with our group to a smaller authentic Chinese restaurant where we met a HOLT representative who gave us more logistical information about when we were to arrive in our specific provinces for our children.  He was very helpful and even called right then to check up on Glory. He said she was doing well and was released on Friday and had been with her foster mom the whole time in the hospital! What a blessing that was to us, to hear. His mercies are ALL over the place here. 
 
After lunch we drove through more of the sprawling city of outer Beijing (we are continually amazed at how spread out the city is, with miles of 'downtown' highrises and apartments) to a famous silk factory where we were given a tour and shown how the silkworm grows and spins a cocoon and how they extract the silk threads and weave together. The boys would have loved it! It simultaneously impressed and grossed me out!  They also said that once they were finished with the silkworms, they roast and eat them! Finally heading back to the hotel, we found dinner(no silkworms) and walked the streets exploring for a bit and fell into bed early again. This trip the jet lag is really hitting me by surprise now instead of on the return journey. Not so much Dan, but i am SO tired! I think i will just be walking around in a daze once we get her and are up all night, i am assuming. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
The next morning we were up pretty early to get ready to fly to Nanning that day. That was yesterday. For us. =0) I went downstairs to say goodbye to one of the couples that we had just met, who were adopting the 9 yr old. Even though we had just met, there is something so sweet about being on this lifechanging journey with other couples, at THIS crucial point in the journey, that 'bonds you' together. And from the instant that we met them i guessed that they were believers (only about half of the couples we have met are) and was an unexpected blessing to even just talk about how God had his hand in each of our adoption journeys. So anyway, i went down to give her a hug (it is a weird thing that for this big day there is no one else from your home to hug you!=0) and we ended up sitting down with her husband and son as well and holding hands, praying in the lobby of a hotel in communist China! Now, maybe you are thinking this isn't a big deal and they might be used to Americans and their faith in public, but i still was encouraged greatly we didn't get 'in trouble'! 
Yesterday was long! We flew into Nanning and were briefed by our new HOLT rep. Jane, on the bus ride out to our hotel. She shared with us, so professionally, about everything we would need to know, what was available to us, how to respond to different things, scheduling the next few days, answered so many questions. We were just thoroughly impressed and thankful we went with HOLT as our agency, at that moment! We have already heard several horrid adoption stories from the couples we have met, who stopped their other processes and switched to HOLT and now are here. We are so thankful HOLT seems to run things like a 'well oiled machine'! So anyway, while we were on the bus, we found out that we will probably be able to vist Glory's orphanage and foster mom and ask her all the questions that we want to! This is a huge blessing for us, but for Glory as well. We also found out that her foster mom (per our awesome guide Jane) took very good care of Glory and has had much experience taking other babies and children with cleft lip and palate and knew how to feed her and help her! Apparently she has two other children there now with her husband and mother. So there are 3 adults to 3 children in her home. Jane also said that the foster mom is eager to meet us and is happy to have Glory adopted. We will see... i am anxious to meet her. We don't know yet if i will go or just Dan, but will not bring Glory with whomever goes.

Right now we are really missing the boys and yet hoping they aren't missing us yet.  So many couples here have brought their children, it seems like a great experience for them but we will have to save that for a long day down the road!  It does make us miss them though.  One of the couples we met last night from Virginia, this will be their first child, and they are getting a little boy 2yrs-his birthday this Thursday! Thanksgiving!  And the other family from Oklahoma, will be getting a 3 yr old boy (they have 2 girls here with them that have been adopted from Vietnam and China) that they were told is 'a spitfire'.=0)  We know about spitfire!=0) so we are all about telling them what they need to know of Star Wars and Legos and Hot Wheels and such! 

Right now we will head out on the town to 'the People's Park' and try to relax! Ha! Countdown is 5 hours until we meet her.  I can't tell if i am shivering from excitement or the air conditioning that works better than i was expecting!

So long for now!          

November 16, 2012

The Great Wall

 
 
 
A room with a view! The building you are looking at is one of the only buildings left downtown that has any resemblance to ancient Chinese architechture. Mao tore down almost all buildings downtown that captured Chinese history. Everything now looks so modern where we are staying. The next photo is outside our hotel before we head out at 8AM for the Great Wall with our trusty guide Arthur and two other HOLT families that are adopting.



One couple with their 15 year old son are  from Wisconsin adopting a 9yr. old boy from northern China and another couple and their 15 year old daughter from Luisiansa.  The group photo at the beginning of our hike on the Great Wall shows us all.   

 
 

Here is a picture of ancient China, where everything is done with care and skill and artistic sensitivity...this is the bathroom at the Great Wall!




This one is for the boys.=0) 
  



Arthur told us the story of the locks strung all along the Great wall tied with red ribbons, how they were brought there and locked by a couple in love pledging their unity and commitment to one another as bound together forever, once they locked it and threw the key over the edge. 


 We only hiked several towers high on this section of the Great WAll, and did not have time to make it to the one you see at the very top. If one hikes all the way there, they can recieve a 'hero award' when returning to the bottom.  It was kind of funny to see masses of people pushing up and down the stairs near the bottom and first tower, walking arond (painfully), some in high heel boots! and others keeled over out of breath (photos do NOT convey how vertical the steps are)  and only one or two heads dotting the ridgeline of the wall at the top tower in the sky!   





Next we drove to a gigantic building that was a famous Jade factory on the bottom and an extremely fancy, sprawling restaurant on the top floor.





We ate first and then went downstairs for a tour and explanation of the history, sculpture and jewelry making of jade in China. There were also spectacluarly intricate, and beautiful silk paintings lining the walls. It was fascinating, and then of course they give you plenty of time to 'shop'! 


Afterwards, we straight away rode downtown again to see 'old China' by rickshaw and visit a resident's house and ask her questions of our choosing.


It was so interesting and so sad that her house will soon be taken over by the government, like most in her neighborhood, and replaced with apartments. Her home is the one she has lived in all her life, and 5 generations before her!  She does not have a choice. It was interesting to wonder if Glory's foster mother lives in a place similar.  She hospitibly served us tea and smiles and I will remember her home always, and am forever grateful for this.






We quickly were ushered out again after our visit, to an acrobatic performance downtown(similar to a small scale Circ de Sole' and quick Chinese food near our hotel before crashing into bed!



...off to the Forbidden City! 

November 15, 2012

In China

 
As we boarded the plane on a Chinese Airline flight, i chuckled to myself that over the intercom was soft piano music playing   "Morning Has Broken". That one must have 'slipped by them'.  Just one more sweet trigger to remind us that He is going before and behind and all around. We praise Him, in Beijing this morning.   

We arrived in the dark to mysterious fog hanging over this ancient city, as our travel guide Aurthur greeted us straight away. When we arrived at our hotel in the heart of the city, Dan and i just glanced at each other, no doubt both thinking this is a far cry from the places we stayed in when we ran around Europe on a shoestring budget!



 
We are so thankful to have made it safe here around 6PM local time and got a few hours sleep. The first thing that happened was that we received a call from our HOLT contact here, who said that Glory is doing great and will be released today from the hospital! Thank you to those of you lifting her up! He also said that a HOLT rep. was with Glory in the hospital, but we don't know if her foster mom was. We cannot see her though until Monday, our scheduled 'Gotcha' day. 
 
Today we are off to explore and learn about Beijing, the old city, and the Great Wall...after coffee!